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Ways to Deal with Habit of Theft in Kids

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A child stealing material things is an underlying need for love and attention. Here are gentle ways in which you can help your child evolve from this negative behavioral tendency.

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Identify the reason/cause: Identify the cause or reason because of which your child is stealing from you. It’s often an attention seeking behavior and an underlying need for love which is unfulfilled. So they start substituting money for love and end up giving more importance to material possessions that can be bought. It could perhaps be that they are not getting their rightful recognition in family, latent anger at a parent or sibling who is being pampered more than them. Children often steal because of peer pressure or ragging/bullying they face in school or social situations so comply to be part of a group. Stealing could also be because of a lack of self-control, the thrill of rebelling against set social norms of behavior. Maybe they can’t identify between right/wrong and preschoolers often do it out of curiosity rather than a habit. An older child or teen however, needs immediate attention and needs to be gently explained about right/wrong behavior in any given situation concerning what’s “mine” and “other persons”.

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Introspect on Parenting Style: Children notice parent’s behavior and follow the example in front of them. So as a parent or influential figure in the child’s life, introspect if you avoid paying for things even though you can afford them. Do you hoard “freebies” from hotels or any other public place out of a sense of false entitlement? Do you avoid tipping because you’ve paid service tax? Identify and re-evaluate what’s your relationship with money to set a more acceptable example in front of your child. Also check if you’re a miser and give your child less pocket-money that keeps him away from enjoying his school/college life. Are you strict/angry/in-attentive when it comes to pampering your child?  And if you’re someone who loathes the rich or have negative feelings about money or those who are affluent – you’re creating a prejudice on your child’s mind. So instead develop an attitude of gratitude and abundance as gaining that affluent stature involves optimism and a lot of relentless work.

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Ways to transform: The best way to transform this situation is to talk/communicate without judging and give your child a chance. Clear the air about right/wrong and also about ownership – things that are theirs and those that belong to someone else or things that are commonly owned by everyone in the family.  Also explain to them about ‘entitlement’ what they are naturally entitled to as citizens and what they have to pay for in every social/professional setting. As a simple exercise, send them to a shop to buy something and check if they give you back the exact change. Teach them about savings and individual pocket money and buy them a piggy bank to help them build their own. Avoid labels of “bad child” “troublemaker” and instead reward good behavior with love and praise. Avoid being too dramatic and ensure you keep this conversation private. Don’t be ashamed as it kills child’s morale and instead be patient and appreciative of how good he is otherwise.

Which are some of the ways in which you can help your child give up stealing? Share your views with us and get featured on the blog.

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Cherish School Memories

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A new academic year gives children a chance to make new friends and increase their social circle. Here are simple ways in which children and their parents can cherish and treasure school memories right from the beginning of a new class.

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Form a Playgroup:

Parents can get in touch with their child’s friends’ families and form a group that can meet outside of school. Go on regular play-dates at the local park, invite them home for indoor games, go out for picnics and attend birthday parties. This helps children know each other on an emotional level and not just as a classmate they study with. Making friends without the pressure of a school set-up especially helps shy and introverted kids who can’t open up or bond with other kids in class.

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Common FB Page/Group:

Parents can get together and create an online group/page via FB or Instagram and other similar social platforms to regularly keep each other updated. These help in sharing milestones, events and daily happenings of their children’s lives like a common time capsule. Keep updating this every year and someday this will make a memorable online treasure box of memories to look back to at their growing up years.

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Personalized Creations:

Handmade is heart-made, and a personalized gift is sweet and sentimental. It could be a hand-painted bottle/vase, cards or just a keepsake for their spaces. Exchanging books and toys is another way of deepening the bond between friends and helping kids learn the value of sharing their material belongings. Another cute way is to let your child’s friend’s write/draw/paint graffiti or a picture in their favorite corner or spaces and vice-versa.

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Write Letters:

This is slightly old-fashioned but writing letters is really very personal and an art by itself. Allow your child to make pen pals and this will help him write out his feelings. Watch them take a much-needed digital break from the online social networking sites to stay in touch with someone from a different country/time-zone. This could eventually help your child be introspective but ensure this isn’t the only way he makes friends or opens up to people as it could be a sign of social anxiety and extreme shyness.

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Celebrate Fatherhood

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Celebrate fatherhood and all the lovely moments of this journey on International Father’s day with these cool ideas from Simba Toys. Young fathers can celebrate with their dads and kids; spread the love across age groups and generations.

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Food Events: Food is a great way to bond. If you’re a foodie and so is your dad and kid, you could attend live cooking events and tastings together. Explore the various food options in the vicinity or across the city as you gorge on the varied cuisines and flavours. Maybe even learn new recipes, cook together and if nothing else – experiment with street food or restaurants at the mall.

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Sporty Fun: Playing sports is a great way to de-stress and bond. You could visit your local park, gym, club or just step out in the building to play football, basketball, cricket, tennis, badminton – the options are endless.  Engaging in sports is fun and brings zest to your routine as well.

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Get Creative: Channel your creative energies to make something you can look back to with fondness. Plant saplings in your garden or in the colony, construct or repair furniture for your home, or create art that will be a great keepsake. This boosts your collective problem-solving skills and also adds warmth to your relationship.

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Just be Home: You could always just stay back home and take it easy. Enjoy a movie marathon with your favorite movies, challenge each other at video-games, go through photo albums, or just talk.

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Gifts: Gifts are a great way to make your dad or kid feel special and celebrate fatherhood.  Some popular ideas include spa vouchers to enjoy rejuvenating treatments, a fitness band, an insurance policy or even market bonds to secure the future. A handwritten card or letter is a sweet and sentimental way to express your love.

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Make your Child’s summer exciting with Summer Camps

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Summer camps are quite popular for Indian families seeking a wholesome experience for their kids. These are immense fun, opportune for learning, great for overall health and enhance a child’s personality in totality.

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Nature Time:

Summer camps let your child’s explore the outdoors; learn more about flora and fauna and the diverse wildlife. Set in rustic environs, kids get a taste of nomadic life, far removed from the ‘instant digital age’. Scientific studies prove the multiple benefits of being close to nature – increased immunity, sharper senses, physical flexibility, mental awareness, emotional happiness and also time to introspect on the big picture of life.

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Nurturing Independence:

The duration of summer camps differs with the organization or group you’re associating with and can be anywhere from 10 days to 3 weeks to a month or more. This means children set up their own tents, cook their own meals with local produce without fancy gadgets or equipment, make their beds and have to learn to look after themselves. Supervisors and camp leaders are usually present, however a child is taught to use his wits and build willpower to survive in all weather conditions and adapt to different environments.

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Learning & Exploring:

Expect your child to come back with loads of new skills, hobbies and a diverse range of interests. Summer camps are a storehouse of activity with a lot of happening to keep your child engaged. From creative pursuits to athletic ones, a child can participate in everything from dance to art workshops, learn martial art forms, go trekking, sailing, experiment with new cooking recipes, and even discover his acting/singing/performing potential.  There’s never a dull moment and usually a child is encouraged to be actively involved in a variety of events to give him a wholesome experience.

 

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Social Network:

Feeling homesick on a summer camp is natural but you need not worry as your child will soon be part of a group. From sharing space with someone who’s his own age, to being around kids with varied personalities – expect your kid to find his own voice. Summer camp supervisors and leaders usually pair up like-minded kids to ensure safety and enjoyment. A mix of kids with different strengths and weaknesses is a good idea so they can support each other and be more emotionally balanced. Introverts and shy kids gain from such an arrangement as being part of a smaller and intimate circle helps them open up and express their inner self without hesitation. Expect your child to come back with lots of memories peppered with laughter, fights, silliness, gossip and unlimited fun.

Is summer camp part of your child’s vacay this year? What do you think of such experiences? Share your views with us and get featured on the blog.

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It’s play-time with Peppa Pig

Combining charming cartoon characters and cute role-play toys, Smoby – Peppa Pig collection promises to bring imagination and cheer into your child’s life.

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Kids love food and their spontaneity enables them to come up with new recipes and inventive names with simplest of ingredients. With Smoby – Peppa Pig Mini Kitchen, watch your little one flip imaginary pancakes and brew some coffee. Another fun way for toddlers to play with their mini gang is with Smoby Peppa Pig Picnic Basket, as they share interesting stories while eating some cake. These playthings lay the foundation for a child’s cooking skills as they grow up. They can also enjoy real food and drinks using these accessories.

 

Sell & Serve!

 We all love being served and Smoby – Peppa Pig tea-time tray and Smoby Peppa Pig Porcelain tea-set combines cute and utility accessories to help a child learn some kitchen etiquette. The cups, saucers, bowls and pots can be used to serve real beverages and snacks – but need to be handled with care. A toy that familiarizes kids with the outside world is Smoby – Peppa Pig Ice-Cream Factory. Your kid will learn how to sell sweet treats and play shop. The fake currency and cash register is useful to teach your kid about monetary transactions till he’s old enough to manage on his own.

 

Paint, Slide or Swirl

 Artistic or active, children have a variety of play-time options to stay engaged. Creative kids will enjoy coloring the lovely scenes with markers, crayons, pencils and stickers in Smoby – Peppa Pig Artist box and the compact packaging makes it easy to carry anywhere. For infants just learning to crawl and sit up, Smoby-Peppa Pig’s XS Slide, is a compact accessory with anti-skid steps. It’s a great pastime and also strengthens a child’s general motor skills and flexibility with time. Another cool option is Smoby – Peppa Pig Car Ride-on with is anti-topple function at front and rear ends that lets babies explore their environs securely. Their favorite toys and sippy cup can be stored under the seat as they move around.

Which are your favorite picks from this new collection for your kid? Share in the comments below.

 

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Summer Diet for Kids

Keep your child refreshed and belly full with these simple diet ideas for the sweltering summers in India!

Keep it Light

 Light meals are easier to digest for kids during the summers than heavy meals laden with oil, cheese or butter. Simple recipes with rice, whole wheat rotis, idlis, dosas, oats, poha, upma and other sprout based broths, whole grains, beans, lentils are great options. You could also just serve homemade soups with veggies for any time of day as these are filling and nutritious at the same time. For sandwiches and rolls, choose whole wheat, multigrain, brown, oats bread over white bread as the former options keep the gut clean as they are low on yeast and gluten.  Avoid meats as these are complex carbs, fats and proteins for a child’s digestive system to breakdown in the heat, eat eggs sparingly in case non-veg is part of your child’s usual diet.

 

Juice Up

 Being hydrated is key to good health in the hot and humid climate that India is prone to at least during the summers. So increase your child’s fluid intake with freshly blended juices, smoothies, and milkshakes to keep them refreshed and high on energy. Avoid packaged beverages and colas as these contain artificial sweeteners, salts, preservatives which can be detrimental to a child’s delicate immune system in the long run. Lemonade, sweet lime, watermelon juice, or even a glass of ORS (Oral Rehydration Salts) containing electrolytes are ideal for all growing kids in the summer.  Coconut water and its inner kernel is naturally cooling and high in B complex vitamins which help kids remain hydrated while building their bone and muscle health. Nothing beats the goodness of water, so ensure your child is carrying his sippy cup or bottle with them at all times, and avoid sharing the bottle to keep oral allergies and infections at bay.

 

Snack-time

 Every kid loves chips, pizzas, biscuits, chocolates, toffees and just consumes them without any thought especially while they are vacationing and busy at play during the summers. These contain a host of artificial flavors, preservatives, salts and sweeteners which can lead to unhealthy addictions, eating patterns and obesity in later life. Try replacing these with homemade chips, baked goodies, flavored popcorn, homemade sweets in ghee with chocolate and other fresh fruit extracts instead. Seeds and nuts like almonds, walnuts, pistachios soaked in honey are great source of protein, manganese, omega 3 fatty acids and other healthy fat sources. 2-3 servings of seasonal fruits like mangoes, oranges, muskmelon, papaya, watermelon, apples in the summers are recommended as these are rich in Vitamin C. AHA’s and other water soluble vitamins which are necessary to keep your child’s skin and hair healthy. Warm and cold salads with cucumber, cabbage, carrot, beets, corn, sprouts, broccoli and lettuce are a wholesome meal by themselves are rich in multiple Vitamins A, B, K along with iron, calcium and other minerals.

Cool as Ice

Summers are incomplete without licking on an ice-cream cone! Children love the cool, melt-in-your-mouth sensation and the explosion of flavors that ice-creams bring. Waffles, baked cones and scoops made from soy milk, almond milk, coconut milk and fruit extracts are healthier as than those refrigerated for months and made from cow’s milk. These can be consumed by adults who are lactose intolerant as well and are a great source of calcium apart from being so indulgent. Slush’s, candy cones, cold coffees and homemade sundaes are beneficial for health than those available in packets outside, especially if you’re unsure of the ice/water quality.

Which are some of the things you enjoy and serve to your kids during the summers? Share your views with us and get featured on the blog.

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Motherhood Safety Through Pregnancy

 

Mommies-to-be need to be mindful of many things, from pre-conception phase to post-partum. Here are some useful tips/measures from Simba Toys to help you remain safe through it all.

Pre – Natal Care:

 For couples thinking of starting a family, pre-natal care for the mother starts at least 3-6 months in advance. This includes focus on right nutrition viz., fresh fruits, lots of veggies especially green ones to maximize on iron, nuts and seeds for antioxidants, grains & pulses for protein and also foods with good fats such as fish, mixed nuts, avocados and opt for olive oil and plant based dairy products for a wholesome meal. Avoid all kinds of foods with laden with preservatives, artificial flavourings, sweeteners, colorants, salts that are detrimental to overall health. Also quit smoking, drugs, alcohol as these could make your child susceptible to addictions and also trigger toxic gene mutations. Use natural items for skincare i.e. fresh aloe gel, rose water, sandalwood packs, homemade fruit scrubs and essential oils as perfumes as these are gentle on the skin v/s alcohol based fragrances and body care products with parabens, SLES and chemicals that affect the vital organs once absorbed through the skin. For those into hair color, use ammonia free based colorants and opt for natural agents like henna. Exercise regularly for optimum stamina, a strong immune system, normal B.P among other health vitals.

Pregnancy Care:

Follow the same diet and nutrition habits as your conception phase and increase your fluid intake i.e fruit juices, coconut water, vegan smoothies and yogurts to stay hydrated. Staying moderately active is recommended during pregnancy, so enjoy walks amidst nature, by the beach, in lush environs of parks and gardens, slow dancing and stay away from traffic prone zones with dust and pollution that could expose you to germs and bacteria. Meditating and deep breathing exercises along with light yoga postures and stretches are a great way to remain fit and calm all through your pregnancy.  Reduce waxing as your skin is already prone to sensitivity, itchiness and redness; bikini waxing in particular is discouraged to keep the vagina protected. Avoid using harsh hair removal creams or laser treatments as skin is the most vital means for bacteria to enter your system via allergies and infections. Take a digital break and reduce time spent watching TV, surfing your phone or other gadgets as these emit harmful UV and electromagnetic waves which are detrimental for the child in the womb. Opt for natural means of entertainment that protect your senses of sight and you could instead listen to music as scientifically it’s soothing for the senses. Regularly visit your doctor to keep track of your baby’s weight, growth, heart rate, position in the womb and changes affecting you all through.

 

Postnatal/ Postpartum Care:

This 3rd and final stage is the most important one as you’re now caring for your child and yourself. Align your sleeping/waking schedule with your child’s as it could help you gain maximum rest. Ensure your child is sleeping next to you in bed or if you’re using a crib or nest, place it as close as possible to make nursing easier. Keep essentials like diapers, clothing (child’s and your own), medicines, water, napkins, pacifier’s close by as you would need them often through day & night. Keep these handy in a makeshift nursery bag or drawer in case you’re shifting rooms through the day. For mommies who are expressing milk using breast pumps, take support from family & friends to help you look after your child and feed him using bottles while you rest. Also keep a check on breast health i.e. cracked/sore/inverted nipples that may hinder breastfeeding. Follow the same diet plan however, avoid meat completely as these are complex for the body to digest and may lead to unhealthy weight gain. Monitor your child’s temperature, weight, growth, potty patterns and also check skin texture & eye color to ensure everything’s normal. For skincare for both baby & mommy, oil massages are recommended for skin elasticity, firmness and radiance. Mothers can also use corset belts or use large cloths as belly wraps for gradually tucking the stomach in. For mothers who’ve had a normal/natural delivery, avoid tight clothing and regularly check with your gynecologist for vaginal skin tears, rashes or blood clots. Bleeding after delivery is normal but if you’re experiencing heavy blood loss, consult your doctor immediately. Also check for symptoms of incontinence i.e. frequent urge to pee or weak pelvic muscles that lead to bed-wetting. Kegel exercises post delivery are recommended and even yoga can help strengthen muscles and get back the toned look; start slowly at least 6 months after delivery. Although, most research has found that mothers actively involved in taking care of the child, lose the extra inches & weight naturally within 3 months. Seek help in case of postpartum depression or fear of not being a good mother or having  difficulty in coping with responsibility.

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